Hypocrisy is rampant: Religionists, Politicians, Street people, Neighbors, Class fellows, even Family members—the list goes on, but hypocrisy won’t stop. Extreme double standards abound in our society.
So, what does it mean to be a hypocrite?
Hypocrisy is defined as having a double standard, allowing yourself the leeway that you don’t give others. A hypocritical person is usually someone who talks one thing while doing another. His behaviors and words are entirely contradictory.
The fact that you are concerned about being a hypocrite demonstrates the genuineness of your beliefs and indicates that there is still enough goodness in your heart.
To completely overcome your hypocrisy, you must take a long-term, slow-and-steady approach. Here’s how to stay away from being a hypocrite:
1- Stop blaming and criticizing others:
Criticism is an open invitation to confrontation. Granted, criticism may be a valuable tool for improving a person’s performance if they want it, but if they don’t, you may find yourself in a conflict with them.
The major problem with criticizing others is that you indicate that you know more about their condition or life than they do. And you won’t most of the time. That’s the truth! You can argue that you would have done this or that if you were in their circumstances, but would you have? You may have no clue how you would have reacted if you had been in that situation.
It is quite simple to pass judgment on other people’s life by declaring, “I am correct!” And it’s likely to be possible that you aren’t.
2- Make no promises; instead, do action:
Hypocrisy exists when one’s words and deeds aren’t in sync. Making fewer verbal pledges cannot help you avoid becoming a hypocrite. The issue with promises is that life does not always go according to our expectations.
Remember the phrase?
Actions speak louder than words.
Make no commitments if you are unsure whether or not you will be able to keep them. With the people around you, your actions will develop trustworthiness and camaraderie.
3- Put what you preach into action:
This is probably the most well-known anti-hypocrisy statement. Make sure that what you teach others is reflected in your own life before you chastise them for their “bad” conduct. It’s easier said than done, so be cautious while correcting people.
4- Never think you are superior to others:
Never believe you are superior to someone simply because you sin differently from him or her. S/he may continue to fail in one or two areas where you do not, but accept that you, too, have expertise sins.
5- Respect other people’s differences with you:
You may disagree based on your own views and values, but you must accept that in this world, righteousness is relative owing to the variety of cultures and faiths. What you consider to be wrong may be accepted in another community; thus, condemning its people would be a form of prejudice. You don’t have to agree with or embrace their viewpoints, but you may at least respect them.
To overcome your hypocrisy, the most significant thing you can do is keep trying. Let us treat one another with respect and affection rather than with hatred. Let us mind our own business and express our concerns without imposing our own views and ideas on others.